Cal’s story (‘Behind the Story’ see history on right) is common in that he is one of many on the streets who has suffered violence and abuse in his childhood and still lives with the pain. I asked him how old he was when it all started. He stared at me and said, ‘Always. Since before I can remember. Me and my brother too.’
How do you deal with something like that? How can you expect anything from a man who has suffered that kind of hellish childhood? And this from his father!
Honestly, I am at a loss to know what to say to this man who has told me about the deepest pain that anyone could endure, and I look at him and listen. I can’t fix this. He has lived for fifty some years and is a survivor, but his torment never stops – ever. It’s not something that you can just pack away somewhere and ‘get on with life’.
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