Just Like Us

Getting married is a big step, and for me, it’s a moment of great joy! While I'm not one to typically share major life events like this, it felt relevant to write about it now. Why? Recently, some street friends have been asking about my upcoming marriage. They've asked about my feelings, including how I'm doing, whether I'm excited, and if I'm nervous. So, as I considered what to write for this blog post, a question kept coming back to me: How does my upcoming marriage relate to the lives of our friends on the street? 

I've had the privilege of interacting with many of those facing poverty and homelessness, some of whom have even gotten married or are in long-term relationships. It's a wonderful thing to see and celebrate, as committed relationships among those facing homelessness are not common. It's not about boasting, but about celebrating important moments. 

And, in my experience, when you share a milestone moment with our street friends, it helps establish a bond that they feel makes you a trustworthy person. Sharing those moments opens opportunities for them to share their hardships with you. It allows you to help them and demonstrates a willingness on their end to accept your help, prayer, and gospel presentation.

Too often, we create an "us and them" mentality when it comes to people experiencing homelessness. We classify them as "other" and treat them as if they’re second-class citizens or ignore their existence altogether. But they feel the rejection and isolation; they know when we pretend they don’t exist as we walk by or avoid them altogether.

The truth is, if you take a few moments to talk with them, you’ll find they are genuine people going through a difficult time. You might even discover that they were once married or held executive positions. They may not have the same financial security or hobbies, but they are human beings with souls, loved by God.

~Andrew, Strategic Communications and Public Relations Manager